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Update to the update (several hours after the fact)!
Yeah, my post-op instructions were wrong. I think they were general guidelines for a surgery such as I had. The nurse eventually got ahold of the doctor who'd actually done the surgery and was part of my trauma team when I was first admitted, so she actually knew what was going on with me. I can't put any weight on the affected finger, which makes sense, but I can put my weight on my palm to use crutches/walker to get around.
I'm home again and resting. My middle finger is still numb and warm to the touch, which is mildly concerning. If that hasn't changed by tomorrow I'll give the hospital a call.
No this is a different girl. The last girl I dropped shortly after posting here.
Common law is as good as married where I'm at. We're already cohabiting for a long while, just to keep her in the country I'll have to solidify it as a common law.
Things have been perfect until legal shit hit the fan recently
"Happy" by Mudvayne is an incredibly underrated relationship song
A) I browsed your history here a bit. Is this the same woman you've posted about seveal times in the past few years?
B) check the laws in your area. In some areas, common law is as good as married. In other areas (I've heard) you can still easily make a clean break.
C) I advise against cohabiting at all.
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Update!
Went in for surgery on my broken finger. Everything seems to have gone according to plan... Except.
My post-op instructions include something about no weight bearing on the affected hand.
Which is all well and good until one considers I need to use crutches or a walker to get around.
I had to send my poor nurse off chasing after clarification to find out just how much of a gimp I am now. My sister helpfully suggested just hopping along with a crutch under my right arm and both left limbs held out, which I'm keeping in my back pocket as a contingency plan.
Have I ever mentioned how much I love bureaucracy? It's just swell getting conflicting and mutually exclusive instructions on caring for my injuries because the different departments refuse to communicate with each other.
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I'm about to make a decision that would put me in a common law in my mid 20s.
Is this always a bad idea? I'm stressing.
I try to limit what i say online. I was almost doxxed twice on reddit. I had to nuke two pretty large accounts because of it.
The autists are good at what they do.
They have taken over boys...
